Infertility, Anxiety & Trauma Counselling, Coquitlam, B.C.

When life doesn't look the way you thought it would, you don't have to navigate it alone.

I support individuals navigating infertility, unexpected childlessness, anxiety, trauma, and
chronic stress, offering a safe, compassionate space to make sense of what you're experiencing and find a steadier way forward.

Port Moody Counsellor Kirsten Sherlock Flourish Counselling

Hi, I’m Kirsten!

I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) based in Coquitlam, BC, specializing in infertility, unexpected childlessness, anxiety, trauma, and chronic stress.

Many of the individuals I work with are navigating fertility treatment, pregnancy loss, or the quiet grief that comes when life unfolds differently than hoped. Others come feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, high-functioning stress, or the lasting effects of trauma.

While this work can hold deep emotion, I’m also known for my warmth and sense of humour. Laughter can be a powerful part of healing, especially when paired with compassion, nervous system awareness, and space to process what’s real.

If you're looking for infertility counselling in Coquitlam, or support with anxiety, trauma, or chronic stress, I invite you to learn more about working with me.

You can't always change what has happened. But you can change how you move forward.

Counselling can offer a space to slow down, make sense of what you're carrying, and find ways to feel more grounded, connected, and supported.

What It’s Like to Work Together

  • Niche Focus

    I offer 1:1 counselling for adults navigating infertility, unexpected childlessness, anxiety, trauma, chronic stress, grief, and difficult life transitions. My work with infertility and reproductive grief includes support through fertility treatment, pregnancy loss, and the complex emotions that can arise when life unfolds differently than hoped.

  • What Clients Can Expect

    Counselling is collaborative and tailored to you. Together, we'll explore what you're experiencing and identify what might help, whether that's building coping strategies, developing grounding and mindfulness skills, understanding patterns that keep you feeling stuck, or creating space to process grief and difficult experiences.

  • Approach & Philosophy

    My approach is trauma-informed, client-centered, compassionate, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I draw from CBT, mindfulness, solution-focused, and narrative therapy, alongside EMDR-informed and somatic approaches. We'll work at a pace that feels manageable, creating space for both the difficult parts and the possibility of feeling more grounded, connected, and hopeful.

My Services

  • One to one private counselling

    1:1 Counselling & Support

    I offer 1:1 counselling (in person, online, or by phone) for anxiety, trauma, stress, burnout, grief, and difficult life transitions, including support for individuals navigating infertility or unexpected childlessness. Together, we create a safe, supportive space to process what you're experiencing, build coping skills, and find a steadier way forward.

  • Healing space group

    Living HeartFULLY - A Healing Space

    Living HeartFULLY is a healing space for those navigating life after infertility or unexpected childlessness. It offers compassion, support, and understanding for individuals walking this journey, creating space to process grief, find connection, and explore what comes next.

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    Webinars & Learning Sessions

    NESTS for Parents – provides a holistic approach to support parents and neurodiverse children, including self-care, nutrition, sleep, and stress management.

    Fostering Resilience (FREE) – focuses on navigating stress and anxiety during and after the pandemic, with tools to build resilience and wellbeing.

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Get started with me, today.